Patience

I hate to wait!  I am not a big fan of having my time wasted, and waiting- be it in lines, at traffic lights, at appointments, or at the microwave- almost always seems to be wasted time.  Waiting is torture.  Waiting is also necessary.  Waiting does not have to be wasteful.

The pace of many things has sped up in our modern time.  Travel times are mere fractions of what they used to be.  Food preparation has been made more efficient with microwaves, convection ovens, and infrared cooking.  Communication is instantaneous where it used to takes days, even months.  But there are still many instances throughout the day where we find ourselves waiting.  Of course, dealing with having to wait is the issue at hand.  We know waiting is necessary sometimes, but how it is that we approach waiting is the question. 

When we find ourselves waiting, we should know that time spent waiting is time spent accomplishing something.  While waiting at a traffic light, we are accomplishing the task of getting somewhere.  It may not seem like it, but we are making progress.  You see, waiting at traffic signals or stop signs is part of traveling on our modern highways.  As we pass through each such stoppage, we have made progress towards our overall goal of getting to wherever it is we are going.  When we wait on things to happen we are actually in the process of accomplishing that thing.

Also while waiting, we should realize that we have been given precious time apart from the things we are doing.  These wait times are like little "time-outs" in life.  These moments can be spent in reflection, thought, or prayer.  Or they may be simply enjoyed as a moment to take a deep breath and refocus.  Take advantage of time spent waiting to catch your breath when life becomes harried and overwhelming.  In the hustle and bustle of getting things done, we often have waiting times interspersed throughout our day.  Instead of anxiously tapping your fingers or pacing around waiting your turn, use that time to extract yourself from the moment and enter a time of peacefulness within that time of waiting. 

While waiting may be tedious, do not forget that it does not have to be wasteful.  Utilize your waiting time purposefully and it will become beneficial time.